This post today is a reminder to anyone (including me) who have lost hope that it takes time & patience for you to get what you want. That is simply the 2 factors of the hope equation..
For those who have lost hope to find their true love, or for those who have already found them and lost them for different reasons this story is for us to remember that there is still hope.
#The family friend:
Our friend H. years ago was engaged to the first girl he loved, their love didn’t make it to the alter because of some family issues so they broke up. He got married later had 3 kids and she did as well and had 2 girls, lived outside the country. Years later she got divorced, came back to the country to settle with her girls, and to our surprise he got divorced too! (Not because of her)
Their kids grew up and because they were living in the same neighbourhood they ran into each other and boom! Reunited.
Now they are married and their 5 kids are best friends. Everytime I see them I just can’t believe how the universe can work in mysterious ways to bring happiness to us if only we understand that it needs time & patience and also a belief that you’ll get the happiness that you deserve eventually.
I have recently lost the opportunity to be with the one I love, whom I think he was my true love. I keep reminding myself with story and many others that maybe the universe will work it out for me the same magical way it did with them.
There is this quote by Steve Jobs where he talked about how you can connect the dots backwards. So I believe we are on a path that is leading somewhere beautiful we might not be able to see it now but we’ll get the full picture when the time is right, we’ll look back with a smile of understanding how those loses, hardtimes & failures brought us to where we are now!
I am sending love and light to the one I love. And for whoever reads this I am sending love, light & hope your way may we all get what we want soon 🙂
We might have came across this quote a lot; but we don’t usually think about it or even apply it in real life.
When you experience a situation in which you are facing any type of difficulty in your life; and all what you hear from people around is I wished to be there. I really wanted to, but i couldn’t. By this time you feel how powerful and meaningful is this quote.
People don’t want to hear that you wanted to be there for them. They need to feel your existence around.
Put yourself in people’s shoes; see how it feels when you are always hearing words that were never proven; see how it feels when someone keeps letting you down.
That cause bitterness. That my friends is a bond breaker. If you happen to have a bond of trust built between you and people around. The work you do is what keeps and strengthen it not only your words.
Kindly start taking this quote into consideration & see how it will affect your life & the one’s surrounding you as well. Leave a mark in people’s heart; let your actions speak for you; that’s how you will be remembered; not by the words you texted them.
Life keeps unstoppably teaching us lessons; and one of the most recent ones I have learned was knowing the importance of showing up no matter what happened. Show Up.
Show up for the people you love.
Show up in every occasion if possible; people are respecting you enough to share important moments of their lives with you; don’t shut them off & turn your back to their invitations.
Show up because you care.
Show up because you can.
Show up because you are still alive; create a memory that lasts in your mind & in people’s one too.
– When in to comes to an end; when each & every one of us leaves this earth our bodies will fade but what will only remain is the warmth of our souls; the softness of our words; our presence back then when we had the chance; that’s the only thing that will remain the memories & moments you shared with people; that’s how you’ll be remembered & that’s how your name will live forever.
Create your own moments when you have the chance.
Show up in people’s precious moments the saddest before the happiest.
Be there for people in your life. – if you don’t please don’t expect anybody to be there for you in return anytime -.
I have learned lately to stop making excuses; I used to live in my own world; not caring that much to the importance of people around;
but then i realized that part of having a really good life is to be there whenever possible.
I used to ignore most of the outings with friends because am too happy having other stuff to do it my way; but taking a look back i noticed how disrespectful is that; why would I keep people away;
And on the other side; I have learned that no matter how much I hate a person; disregarding too many facts you have to be there in the saddest moments even if you hate this person. you still have to show up.
Because you never wanna end as a reaction not the action itself. Showing up is good.
So be good.
that’s what life taught me; Be good; Show up, It really really matters.
let time stops here where we are all together happy still looking good with our pure warm hearts..
when changes take place coldness fill hearts; distances get longer ..
what was there will never be here again no matter what ..
why can’t everyone just keep their roles ?!.. they are still going to be on the top, taking care of everything ..still taking care of us; and our roles will remain always their cute lil children who love them and always willing to be under their feet to do anything for them..
and it won’t be enough compared to all the sacrifices they did;
I just can’t picture them in any state but strong as they’ve always been.
There has to be a way to stop time .. to stop everything from moving on.. why can’t everything just standstill ?
why can’t we be forever young ?!
we will grow old and they will too. our roles will grow ..
changes will take place in our lives and what we have right now “our present” will become our future’s past .. our now will become a memory a very beautiful one ..
let us just hope this “present” will last longer than we could even expect.
you know that spark that comes out shining of the ” first time of everything ” ” the bright eyes ” the amusement and joy when you try new things for the first time or when you are experiencing new situation and you have no prior experience so you are letting the events take you as it moves , you don’t know any of the consequences so you have to wait till the end
those are momentary, breath-taking .. keep them in your mind and take your time to enjoy them bec. at some moment you’ll remember them and smile at this moment exactly you’ll be the most grateful person on earth for what you had ..